Is it possible to get my father to stop bringing my allergen to Christmas dinner?
Is it possible to get my father to stop bringing my allergen to Christmas dinner?
Answer is...
1 No! After 15 years he is clearly not going to change his behavior. You only have control of your reaction and emotions. At this point I am going to guess that you have told him how bringing this dangerous dish makes you feel- including putting your health at risk.
2 What you can do is accept the dish into your home and put it away far from where it can put you in danger. Once he’s gone give it to the neighbors or simply throw it away. Don’t let his behavior ruin your day. I would also recommend you let him know in a calm manner - maybe an email - that his dish will be placed away from the other food. If he’s not happy about it he’s welcome to leave it at home.