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Why do relationships stagnate over time?

Hi. I'm Alexandra Stockwell, and I'm here to answer the question about why relationships stagnate over time. 

Reason #1 Growth Mindset

Reason #1 is having a growth mindset.

Many people believe that the most important thing is to marry the right person. While that is important, the most important thing is that you marry someone you can grow with, who also wants to grow with you. 

Reason #2 Avoiding Hurt Feelings

Reason #2 is not wanting to upset your partner.

Many people want to avoid hurting their partner's feelings and opt to be nice and accommodating instead. However, it means that they end up holding back on things that are important to them.

You avoid saying something that's important to you and whether it's minor or major, in the process you abandon your desires. You prioritize the peace and put your discontent under the rug.

That seems to work well. However, if you are holding yourself back the rest of the time, when you get to the bedroom, there's no switch to flip that helps you suddenly be fully expressed, fully present, and passionate. Compromising what matters to you in order to make it easier for your partner definitely leads to stagnation in the relationship.

Reason #3 Lack of Education

Reason #3 is a lack of education.

If you want to know how to use your growth mindset and share all of yourself with your partner (and be received) you need to find a teacher.

If you want to shed stagnation in your relationship and replace it with a vital, dynamic, passionate partnership, reach out to me. My name is Alexandra Stockwell and I specialize in showing couples how to create long-lasting, stable, passionate, beautiful relationships. I'd love to show you how!

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